5 Ways to Patch Up After a Breakup
4. Stop the blame game
If you are trying to patch up, it is really necessary that you stop the blame game. When you are trying to patch up, there is no reason as to why you should bring up old wounds and relive the past relationship. You should get over those things and start something new when you patch up. Stopping the blame game will make the patching up process much smoother and less painful.
5. Try not to be the same person
Try to change yourself as a person and as a girlfriend when you are trying to patch up. Even if the fault was not yours, it helps when you change as you would not react the same way or expect the same things out of the relationship that you had done earlier. It is futile to change others, so it is always better and easier to change ourselves and it never works better than in a relationship.
