Are You Ready To Be A Parent?
Parenthood is said to be the most beautiful stage of a person’s life. It teaches you so many things. It makes you want to laugh and cry at the same time. Along with all the fun and lessons learnt, it is also important to remember that it requires the same amount of preparedness as well. In order to avoid confusion and turmoil, it is always better to make sure that you are ready to have a child before you take up the responsibility. Here are 10 ways to know if you are ready to be a parent.
1. Is your relationship with your spouse strong?
Or are you finding it extremely difficult to deal with each other? Are the two of you planning to have the baby in order to improve your broken relationship? Then, you are on the wrong path. Your child needs to grow up in a happy and secure atmosphere. Hence, don’t burden the baby with the responsibility of improving your broken marriage. Even if you don’t bring the internal rift before the baby, the negative vibes of your broken relationship will only serve to hamper the growth of your baby. Hence, improve your relationship with your spouse first, only then plan to have a baby.
2. Does your job provide you with security?
Raising a child is expensive. Right from buying essentials till paying for their education, you need to be able to afford for the expenses involved. Be it spending for the cradle, toys, diapers, bottles, vaccinations, each and everything costs. It is very important that you hold a job that secures you and your family financially. Then only will you be able to raise your child in a secure environment and provide it with the education that it needs.
3. Are you financially stable?
As much as certain expenses are important, it is also vital to save some amount just in case the need arises. Make sure you have sufficient savings to start with. Also make sure that you have a good insurance policy to secure your family and pay for the education of your child.
4. Are you suffering from any health problem?
It is always wiser to opt for a complete heath check up before you plan on having a child. If you are suffering from any kind of serious illness, seek immediate medication. Find out if your illness is likely to affect the child as well.
5. How mature are you?
Maturity cannot be acquired or learnt. It is a state that can be reached only through experience. Unless you are mature enough to handle childbirth and rearing, you certainly will not be able to raise a child properly. Children are innocent. Often they tend to break things around the house, wake up in the middle of the night, dirty the place, or throw tantrums. At such times, you will have to keep your needs aside and look after your child and calm it down. You will have to instill the right values and virtues in your child. Hence, you yourself have to be mature enough to handle all this.
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