8 Tips to Tell Your Parents That You are Gay
5. Don’t crack silly jokes
People tend to crack silly jokes to hide their nervousness or to ‘ease’ things up a little bit. But this will undermine the seriousness of your position. So, refrain from making jokes about the whole situation.
6. Emphasize your love for the family
Let them know that you are still the same. Make them believe that you’ll always be there for them, no matter what. Emphasize how much you love them and appreciate their support and understanding.
7. Remain calm
There are some chances that you’ll be met with severe criticism. Reactions of shock, even yelling can be expected. But you should remain calm. Understand that your family needs time to adjust to this news. Give them space and your patience.
8. Tell them that you are happy and content with yourself
Let them know that your true happiness lies in accepting who you are. Tell them that you have no shame in being homosexual. Tell them how happy and content you are about your sexuality. Slowly they’ll come around and see you for who you are.
Give them time and they’ll support you. That’s what families are for!
