6 Tips to Give Your Husband More Space in Your Relationship
Loving your husband does not always mean crowding his mental space or being with him every single moment of the day. A healthy relationship entails giving each other enough space and freedom to operate with individuality. Here are a few tips to give your husband more space in your relationship and not make him feel suffocated.
1. Don’t start nagging your husband or remind him of pending tasks as soon as he comes home
One of the reasons that husbands tend to get fed up of their wives is because wives start falling into the habit of nagging them as soon as they come back from work. Avoid telling your husband or reminding him of pending to-do lists when he comes back after a tired day. Let him take his time to chill, rejuvenate and relax before talking about these things.
2. Let him have his mens’ night out
Husbands secretly love guzzling their beers on their boys’ nights out but may be afraid of saying this out in front of their wives. Don’t become such a towering presence in your husband’s life because of which he may have to stop doing what he loves. Let him hang out with his male friends whenever he feels like. Giving him a free hand in doing this will send him a sign that you value his individual choices and freedom.
3. Pursue your own activities
Don’t force your husband to come out shopping with you every weekend. He may do it unwilling for some time, but he may get fed up hanging out with you for things he doesn’t like doing. Follow your own set of interests or hobbies with your friends. Leave the house empty for your husband occasionally and see how relaxed he feels.