5 Ways To Understand Your Partner Better
Dominique, 32, and Patty, 29 were having a discussion about how you can understand your partner better. Dominique represented the male’s mind while Patty spoke for the ladies. Here are a few tips on how you can understand your partner better that we picked up as the best tips from their discussion.
1. Listen to your partner carefully
“Women sometimes tend to talk so much that they hardly hear what we men really think”, said Dominique, starting off on the topic of how you can understand your partner better. “If you give your vocal chords a break for a while and listen to our part of the story, you could really understand us better” he added. That’s a valid point, isn’t it?
2. Allow your partner to take charge and understand him/her better
“I have a point to make about how you can understand your partner better Dom” said Patty. “Why do you men always think that you have to take charge in every time? Sometimes you must allow us women to take charge things, inside or outside the household, and see how we handle situations so well” she added. Allowing your partner to do things and seeing their methods of dealing with situations will help you understand your partner better.
3. Observe you partner’s habits on a daily basis
“You may ask your partner his/her list of favorites. But you can’t possibly know all their likes and dislikes at one go, right?” asked Patty. Dominique nodded in agreement and said “That’s true. A great tip to understand your partner better is to quietly observe their habits when they’re not looking!” he said. “This will give you a lot of unknown insight about them” he added.