8 Ways to Overcome Insecurity in a Relationship
We all have our insecurities about the important relationships in our life. However, when these insecurities start affecting your relations negatively, it is a sign that you need to make some serious changes in your thinking pattern. Here are some of the ways in which you can overcome insecurities.
1. Give breathing space
A relationship takes times to grow. Give each other and your relationship the breathing space that it requires. You could schedule in some ‘separate time’ to see where your relation stands and what needs to change.
2. Make no comparisons
No two relationships are the same. If you keep comparing your current relationship with your previous failed relationships, you will keep on sinking deeper and deeper into the insecurity hole.
3. Accept people as they are
This not only applies to your partner but it also applies to you. Do not keep on changing yourself as per the wishes of your partner. You need to value yourself and know that you form an important part of this relationship.
4. You are not the only one suffering
You need to remember that your fears and anxieties have a direct effect on your partner who is at the receiving end of all the insecurity. If you continue to make it so difficult for your guy to be with you, he will eventually give up on the relationship.