6 Ways to Fix an On-Off Relationship
4. Let go of the little things
Since you both seem to love each other too much to let go, even after several break ups, you both ought to look at the things that are hindrances to your growth as a couple. Identify them and let go or compromise on some or most of them that don’t seem as important as having him in your life.
5. Set a deadline
If you are too fed up of this on-off relation, then set a deadline for it to cement into something serious. Inform him that you have had enough of the on-off status and that you want a settled family one day for which you have marked a deadline. If he loves you, he would surely commit to you before time and if he doesn’t, then you know where you stand; better move on.
6. Weigh the pros and cons
Sit down, think and jot down the various pros and cons of your relationship with him. If the good outweighs the bad, then compromise a little for the negatives. But if the disadvantages are more, it’s time to end it for good. Tell him to do this exercise too and see what he feels or has to say about the state of your relationship.
