10 Ways To Find Out If Your Guy Is Cheating
6. Having a new set of friends but avoiding involving you in the circle
Guys want their girls to be with them when they are out with friends. A guy would like to show his girl off to his friends as his most prized possession. However, if your guy has someone new in his life, he will definitely not involve you with his friends and social gatherings anymore. He would also have a new set of friends who you may not even know.
7. Frequently finding faults with you
When your guy is cheating, you can expect frequent fights where he constantly finds faults with you and criticizes you. This happens as psychologically, he forms his image of an ideal woman by placing someone else in the position that you held before. Mentally, he would always compare you with her and judge your actions by her standards. If you find him lose his temper frequently out of no reason and constantly finding faults with you and highlighting all your negative aspects, rest assured that your guy is cheating on you for a woman, he feels is much better than you.
8. Avoiding looking at you in the eyes
It is a rule of nature that a guilty man cannot lie to you while looking straight into your eyes. If you ask your guy a question and you find him mumbling something with a lot of pauses with either a dreamy expression on his face or his eyes straying everywhere else but your eyes, he may be lying. If this lying goes on for long, there may be another girl involved in the picture.
9. Always taking a moment before answering your call
This is another technique that is adopted by men when they are cheating on their spouses. They will always have problems answering their partner’s phone. The phones would be mostly switched off when they are out with the other woman. Even if your partner’s phone remains on, you can always expect him to take a moment or two before answering your phone. Though he would give you excuses that he did not see the phone as it was on silent mode or that he had his clients with him, which would restrict your conversation with him, he may be with the other girl.
10. Changed attitude among old friends
Many of your old friends who know about the new girl, would be very uncomfortable around both of you together,because they would be worried about not letting anything slip and cause trouble in your relationship. You would find your friends either uncomfortable in your presence or avoiding you completely.
The most important step after realizing that your partner is cheating on you is to take a stand. Brace yourself for what is yet to come and remember that it is better to get hurt once than live with the deceit each day. However, confront him only when you have strong evidence suggesting his infidelity unless you want an innocent partner to get hurt with your suspicions.
