Top 5 Reasons He Hasn’t Asked You Yet
It has been quite some time since you like him, and, you feel he too has a soft spot for you. However, he has not approached you as yet. What can be the reasons that are holding him back? Here are some possible reasons why he has not asked you out as yet.
1. He is clueless about your interest
Men are not good at reading minds. Maybe he is simply not aware that you are interested. Several men would like to go ahead with the relationship but they feel that they are unsure if the girl is interested. If he has not asked you out, probably it is time for you to show some interest. Walk up to him and say hello, initiate some conversation, and if you already know him, start dropping hints. Go ahead, and show your eagerness and then step back and see how it proceeds.
2. He is not interested
Most women start blaming themselves if the guy they like, is not interested in them. Keep in mind that it has nothing to do with you. If he is not interested, he is not. You cannot force him to like you and take you out on dates. Remember that at the end of the day, you would much rather be with someone who loves you and cares about you just as much as you do. Wait for the one who thinks you are worthy of being pursued.
3. He is scared
A lot of guys are plain afraid and insecure. The failure of rejection prevents them from asking you out. If you feel that the person you like is scared, you can indirectly assure him that there is nothing to feel afraid of. Letting him know of your interest will also give him confidence to make a move.