Top 10 Marriage Fears
6. Will I lose myself?
There is a growing concern for the loss of individuality as men and women think of getting married. They feel worried that they will no longer be able to “be themselves” and will have to adjust and make compromises to please the spouse. They feel scared of losing their freedom and the sense of self after they are married.
7. Will we be financially stable?
If either of you are financially unstable then the thought of marriage can really fill you up with a lot of insecurities. You feel scared of the rising costs and wonder if you both will be able to sustain a family with the kind of money you are earning.
8. Am I marrying for the right reasons?
Many a times things like an unplanned pregnancy can lead to the couple wanting to marry each other. Or sometimes they may just take a plunge because their friends think that they are the perfect match. It may so happen that you are marrying someone just to prove your point. In many cases, couples plan to get married just because they are not sure if their relationship will survive the long distance complications. Many a times a person may wonder if he/she is marrying for the right reasons and it is a genuine fear.
9. What if things change for the worse after marriage?
We often hear people saying that people change after they get married. This is one of the main reasons why even those in perfectly happy relationships do not choose to get married. They are too scared of either one of them changing for the worse. It is this fear of the unknown that makes them have second thoughts. They feel that what they have right now is too precious and perfect to take a chance at marriage.
10. What if we get bored of each other?
One of the most common fears when it comes to the thought of marriage is the fear of getting bored of each other. The thought of making a lifetime commitment to someone can be a very tough thing to do. Since you have not seen the future, you can never know for sure if you will feel the same love for your partner 10 years down the line.
