5 Tips to Reject a Sensitive Guy
Rejection, especially in love can be a very tough thing to bear and to do. No one likes to get rejected in life for anything. It can be rejection in work, not getting something they wanted, but nothing hurts more than being rejected as a person or as a lover. Keeping this in mind, it becomes all the more difficult to be the rejecter. There are many ways people deal with rejection. Some shrug it off and move on, some take it badly and want revenge while others, especially the real sensitive ones take it to heart and there is no telling what they will end up doing. They usually get hurt real bad and carry around the scars for a long time and some even go to the extent of hurting themselves. It is a very tricky thing to reject a sensitive guy and here are some tips on how you can go about it.
1. Take the blame
It helps ease the pain for him a bit when you take the blame completely for the rejection. Whether it is true or not, you need to blame yourself for everything that went wrong in the relationship. This way at least he will have his ego intact and take solace in the fact that nothing he did contributed to the breakdown of the relationship.
2. Talk to him slowly
Don’t just break it to him. Walk him through it like you walk a child on a narrow ledge. If he cries, do not get angry or belittle him for that, but hold his hand and stay as long as he needs you to stay with him. If his is the behavior that out you off in the first place, there is nothing much you can do but grit your teeth and bear with him.
3. Be the bad person
Sometimes no amount of hand holding will do the trick. In such cases you just need to walk out. If you do not, you will feel guilty about tit and keep staying in the relationship even if you do not want it. Be the bad person and be rude if you have to, if that does the trick, you will be good.