6 Things to Do If Your Husband is Jealous of Your Success
It is commonly seen that many husbands feel jealous of their wives’ professional success. This happens because men are traditionally considered to be the bread earners of the family and they feel threatened by the possibility of a role reversal. Here are a few ways in which you can deal with your husband’s jealousy.
1. Hold your husband responsible for your success
One of the ways in which you can help your husband deal with your professional success is to hold him responsible for it. Tell him that you wouldn’t have been able to be successful if he did not offer his support to you. Make him feel that he has a major contribution towards your success. Sharing the ownership of your success with him will make him feel that his success lies in your success and he won’t feel jealous of it.
2. Stoke his male ego
Stoking a man’s ego often helps him to build self esteem and self worth. If your husband is constantly comparing his success to yours and feeling jealous, it is time for you to assure him that he will always be the bread earner of the family. Do this through via conversation on a regular basis, complimenting him and creating opportunities for him to display his masculinity.
3. Talk about your husband’s feelings
In cases where frustration mounts up in a husband’s mind owing to his wife’s flourishing career, it is important to build bridges through communication. If you have started observing such an attitude in your husband through his behavior, nip it in the bud before it becomes a monstrosity. Talk about this issue with your husband. This will help you to sort out the problem early on.
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