4 Things to Do If You Cheat on Your Boyfriend
There are some who say that humans are not meant to be monogamous and there are others that strongly believe in monogamy, love, commitment and surrendering it all to just one person in their lives. – To each his or her own belief. People cheat for a lot of reasons and without attaching any moral overtones to it, if we were to look at it clinically one would understand that there are only a very few who do it wantonly. Others do it for a variety of reasons. It could be for revenge, it could be because you could not help yourself or it could be because of boredom. Unless you have a very open relationship where you could talk to your partner about all these things, cheating or straying on your part is going to create a lot of pain hurt and anger. And if you were the one who had cheating or been cheating on your boyfriend, what would you do? Here are some things to do if you had cheated on your boyfriend.
1. If your boyfriend is the understanding type and you are willing to risk your relationship, you should come clean
Coming clean to your boyfriend largely depends on how well you know him and how well he can take the news. It is not going to be easy even for the most liberal minded guy. There is no easy way to break it, but if you think you should come clean and spill it all out, pick a right time and break it to him. But it is important that you give it a lot of thought.
2. If it was a one-off thing and you are sure you can get away with it, you should just let it go
Sometimes it is just good for everyone involved if you just let go of it. If the affair or the one night stand happened in a drunken stupor or because you were feeling rebellious, you should probably put it behind you and there is no reason why you should share it with your boyfriend and make his life miserable too.