12 Things Happy People Never Do
Happy people not only know the secret, but they know how to use it. The concept is no rocket science, and yet it seems so unfathomable. When happiness is explained, it appears to be so easy to achieve but still, people eventually end up being unhappy because being happy is so simple, they do not take it seriously, and begin to believe that unhappiness is probably going to be fruitful, though it never does. People who are happy manage to do away with several futile things which others never cease doing. If we can emulate their habits, we can be happy too. Listed here are 12 things happy people never do.
1. Interfere in others’ business
Happy people mind their own business. They do not poke their nose into things which do not concern them. They keep to themselves, interact with others in so far as it does not involve passing unwanted comments, arguing over something futile or giving superfluous opinion. They believe that every person is responsible for their own happiness.
Gossiping or talking behind someone’s back may be gratifying but it does not make one happy. Happy people do not discuss things about other people just for the sake of it. They would rather talk about their own interests, things and people they love, than things they do not.
3. Think negatively
Happy people know how to avoid thinking negative. They never give in to any kind of thought that makes them feel bad. If they ever do, they immediately think something happy or do something to change their mood and to feel good. They recall happy memories in times when things seem to be overwhelming.
4. Seek revenge
Happy people know that revenge never helps overcome any ill feeling or bad memory. If they have been wronged, they forgive and forget and move on in life. They do not hold on to bad memories and seek revenge to punish someone or harm someone. The very thought of revenge brings negativity, and happy people know this.
5. Hold on to guilty conscience
Happy people never let guilt overcome them. If they have made mistakes in life, they accept them and learn from them, instead of feeling guilty about it forever. People who are unhappy carry their guilt for a long time and thus bring a lot of negativity into their lives.
6. Act jealous
Happy people do not feel jealous. In fact, they keep themselves so busy thinking happy thoughts that they have no time to feel jealous. Also, they never complain about things that they do not have, instead they give thanks for the blessings in their lives.