8 Ways to Win a Guy Back
Breakups are intense and can emotionally drain you out. We can only try to understand what you’re going through, but the actual pain of a breakup is unimaginable. Somehow, you haven’t let go of your ex. You still love him and desperately need him to be back in your life. If that’s the case, you need to follow some steps on what you should and should not do to win a guy back. Continue reading to know some tips on how to win a guy back.
1. Stop being clingy
Guys don’t like girls who are always clingy and needy. So you should get the thought of going after him and begging before him to take you back in his life out of your mind. Life is a drama, but you don’t need to be melodramatic: especially in front of him. This sort of behavior will only push him away from you.
2. Concentrate on something else
Yes, this is a very important task that you need to do. You should not let him know what emotions you are facing at this moment. That will be of no use. Instead, act as if you’ve moved on with your life. Take up a hobby like dance lessons or go out for a walk in the park in the evening. In this case, dance lessons will surely trigger some past emotion in him when he comes to know about his ex-girl being close to other men. Oh and surely you have to let him know about whatever you do in life in some way or the other.
3. Don’t stalk him
You might be feeling the need to call him every now and then thinking that you need to talk to him and make things right between you both and all that. But watch your step, girl. This behavior again gives a red signal to your guy and instead of thinking of reconciling with you, he will view you as a ‘harassment’ or ‘botheration’.
4. Focus on yourself
You don’t want to appear teary-eyed or sloppy looking if with luck you happen to bump into your ex, do you? So it’s essential that you focus on yourself even after your breakup. Look your best, attend parties. Mostly, go somewhere where his friends hang out and let them see you looking beautiful and hot. They are surely going to tell your guy how hot you were looking. However, be careful and don’t let them know that you were there on purpose!