8 Reasons Why the No Contact Rule Works
The no contact rule might be the toughest rule to follow but also the most effective at times. This is not only true for when you have had a bad breakup but also while you are in a bad relationship that needs healing. We give you a number of reasons why this rule could work for you and help you in more ways than you can imagine.
1. Gives your partner a chance to miss you
When in a relationship you feel that you are being taken for granted, then following this rule might give your partner a chance to miss you and realize your value. You could probably just take a break and avoid contact with each other for just 3-4 days. This will be more than enough to make him recognize your importance.
2. Gives you a chance to think
The no contract rule is something that gives you a chance to clear your head and gives you an understanding of where your relationship stands. It also gives you some time to be alone with your thoughts and rethink where you are going wrong.
3. Gets you out of the on-off relationship
If you do not follow this rule and get back with your ex immediately after the breakup, it would not give you a chance to resolve your issues. Also, you will end up having an on-again off-again relation that will add to your problems.
4. Helps ease the pain
If you constantly keep in touch with your ex, it will only add to your heart-ache. You will constantly have rays of hope that might get shattered any time. It will make it equally difficult for both of you to let go of each other.
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