7 Ways to Keep Him in Love With You Always
Relationships go sour when partners start taking things for granted. Stale relationships hurtle eventually towards ruin, breaking apart due to accumulated bitterness and mutual disrespect. It is therefore important to keep the spice alive in a relationship. Come to think of it, it isn’t that hard either. Here are some ways for you to keep him in love with you always.
1. Give him his space
Men are not gazelles exactly, but they still love their space. Men fall out of love with women or start avoiding them when they realize she asks for too much of his space. Men like breathing free and it is important that you understand his need for liberty. A man who feels free will always find ways to love you back and reward you for that freedom. Don’t force him to do things that you know, he doesn’t enjoy, except in rare situations.
2. Express your love as often as possible
Irrespective of their cool demeanors, most men are insecure. They have a special need to hear you say it. So, express your love at every single occasion possible. Sometimes it could be as simple as saying, ‘I love you’. It could make a huge difference in your relationship and his trust will be reinforced each time. After a while, he will feel secure enough in your presence.
3. Never shy away from PDA
A little bit of PDA isn’t so bad. There are times when a mere touch can spark overwhelming emotions, especially when you are going through a rough phase or have had a nasty argument. Therefore, take your chance whenever you feel like holding his hands or giving him a warm embrace. A kiss can fix more issues than you could ever imagine, especially with a sulking silent guy.
4. Make a genuine effort to understand him
This is quite important in most relationships and is especially critical in case of men who have grown up feeling misunderstood or are slightly less confident about others’ attitude towards them. Show him that you really want to understand him and read his thoughts. You have to show him that his fears are as much yours as they are his. The same holds true for his dreams and his memories. It could mean taking a lot of excessive baggage but sometimes it helps him unburden them. Men always respond beautifully to women who love sharing their baggage and seem to understand his need to talk about them. It is a clash of two worlds at times and you have to show that you want to understand his inner world at all costs before sharing your life with him.