7 Tips for Dating an Attention Seeker

7 Tips for Dating an Attention Seeker

Dating an attention seeker is quite a tough ask. This is because the attention seeker rarely wants the spotlight to turn to someone else including the girl he is dating. However, if you like a man for what he is and would still like to continue dating him, there are a few things that you can do to improve your situation and get him to understand you better.

1. Pay attention to the positive things

If you are dating him, it obviously means there are certain things he does right and certain things where he is indeed good. The good part about attention seekers is that they love attention so much that they are willing to do anything to keep getting that attention. By showering them with attention, compliments and acknowledgements on acts and qualities that you love, you can make sure your man doesn’t lose those attributes.

2. Don’t pay attention to the negatives

This is an obvious corollary. Like kids, attention seekers too get used to negative attention seeking behavior over a period of time. Sulking, screaming and sarcasm are some of the traits that they unleash when they are not getting the attention they would like to have. Attending to their requests as a response to such behavior will only strengthen their motives. The best way to respond to negative attributes is by ignoring them. Attention seeking men don’t like being ignored and this will obviously take them back to the positive behavior traits they display in order to seek your approval.

3. Appease his ego

One of the downsides of dating an attention seeking man is that you cannot play boss, on most occasions and definitely not when there is an audience. You have to take a call on whether you are fine playing second fiddle or whether you want to move on to someone different. If you are dating an attention seeking man, you will have to be someone who loves pampering as that will appease the big ego that such a man is likely to have. Whether you are happy with how he rewards you once his ego has been appeased will determine if your efforts are worth it.

4. Involve your man in conversations

If you are dating an attention seeking man, make sure you introduce him to any friend you run into during your dates. If you meet a friend at a coffee shop or a shopping mall, your attention seeking man will want to get into the thick of things very early. Don’t make him wait for a while before introducing him over to your friend, irrespective of whether it is a man or woman.

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