7 Reasons Why True Love is Hard to Find
True love is so hard to find is what many singers have crooned over and many million people sulk about. So, why is this true love so elusive and tough to find? There must be reasons why millions across the world think so. Here is a list of popular reasons.
1. Being unconditional is a trait that not many possess
While it is easy to fall in love with someone, it is not as easy to like someone over yourself. Giving in to their desires and needs and putting your requirements second place takes a lot of pristine love. Being unconditional is not a trait that comes easy and true love is synonymous with being unconditional.
2. Because expectations of the self are higher
When you seek the company and love of another person to fulfill your own inadequacies of want, pleasure, comfort and solace; it ceases to be love. One that offers these to the other is the lucky find and seldom do both the partners get to be like that.
3. Because love is not merely physical attraction
Physical attraction is an important component of love but cannot be the only determining factor. However, some people find it difficult to look beyond that and that is when true love walks out of the window.
4. Because tolerance is hard to find
People are often quoted saying that two people can be in love only when they share mutual interests. This is a total myth. You can have diverse interests but you need to respect and tolerate what your partner likes. Tolerance and love for the other despite varying interests is true love.