6 Ways to Make Someone Trust You Again After You Broke Their Trust
4. Do special gestures
Do special gestures for them to make them feel special and wanted. Make them realize how much you respect them and how important they are for you. Do things they like such as get them a sweet gift, cook them their favorite dish, write a poem for them, etc.
5. Blame yourself
It is you who has done the majority of the wrong deed and even if the affected person has played a little part in making you break the trust, you should blame yourself in front of them to win back their trust. Be genuinely contrite by trying not to make any justifications and excuses for what you have done. Do not use words like ‘but’ or ‘if only’ in your apology and know that any attempt to turn things around on the other person will backfire. You must not attempt to shift blame to anyone, but rather accept responsibility yourself.
6. Write down your feelings and give it to them
Offer a written proof which they can keep for future references. If you give your apology and the feelings of guilt and remorse as well as the steps you will take in order to win them back, in writing, then they will feel secured and sure about your intentions.
