6 Ways to Convince Your Boyfriend to Delay Marriage Plans
Is your boyfriend in a hurry to get married to you? Do you feel that it is too early to go ahead with marriage? If you want to convince your boyfriend to wait a few more years before you both get married, here are a few ways to do so without insulting him or breaking his heart.
1. Talk about your career plans
If your boyfriend is really eager to get married to you, talk about your career plans. Tell him that you both should focus on your careers before settling down completely. Convince him that you still need a few more years to establish yourself and gain experience to take the next jump in your career. Tell him that planning your careers is a good thing for the future of your relationship because you will not have to worry about being out of a job.
2. Talk about money matters
Does your boyfriend have a stable job to support you both financially? Have you both saved up enough money to start a family? Do you both have enough financial back to even think about putting a deposit on a house a few years later? Talk to your boyfriend about these things and convince him that you both need to wait for a few more years and become completely financially stable before you can both get married.
3. Tell him that it is too early to take so much responsibility
Talk to your boyfriend about the disadvantages of settling down in life so early. Tell him that there will be many responsibilities that you both will have to take up. He will have to bear the responsibility of being a good husband and you will have to do everything you can to play the role of a good wife. Whether it is about him having to become more responsible financially or you having to become more responsible for the household, the thought of being more responsible may persuade him to wait for marriage.