10 Signs You Are Dating a Loser
Life is too short to adjust and compromise. Instead of wasting your time with someone who is an ultimate loser, it is better to be single and give yourself the opportunity of meeting someone awesome like you! Especially during the initial honeymoon stage of a relationship, it is almost impossible to notice any flaws in the guy you are seeing. Hence we are here to help you out and make it a little easier to spot. Listed below are 10 signs that you are dating a loser. Check them out!
1. He is directionless
He has no goals in life. We are describing an aimless person who lives from day to day with no ambition in mind. He is satisfied with the way things are and has no enthusiasm to grow. Such a guy will never be able to inspire you. Instead, if tomorrow you think of doing something with your life, he will discourage you as well. You have no future with such a guy because he is a loser!
2. He criticizes everything you do
He will find faults in everything you do. Be it the way you look, the way you dress, the way you talk, the way you behave or your career. He will always be finding new and innovative ways to put to down and make you feel that you are no good. You will never be able to be happy with such a guy because he will only make you feel bad about yourself. No matter how much you do for him, it will just never be enough because he is a loser!
3. He is violent by nature
He may be the sweetest ever to you, but when he gets mad, he transforms into a total beast. He gets really aggressive, creates a scene in public, yells or insults you in front of others, doesn’t hesitate to even go to the point to hit you and engage in other such violent things. You can’t even imagine staying with such a guy for the rest of your life. Hence it is better that you end things as soon as possible. Spare yourself the torture of being with such a guy.
4. He is dependent by nature
All his decisions depend on others. He just cannot take them on his own. He either has to ask his parents or you about what he should do. Asking for advice is fine. But here is a guy who does only what others tell him to. Guys are supposed to be independent. They are meant to be that way. Unless he can take care of himself, how will he be able to look after you and protect you? A guy who depends on you or others for every little thing is a big red flag. You cannot be with him forever, because after a point you will only get frustrated.
5. He is way too quick
He hardly met you and claims to be already totally in love with you. In no time he wants you to move in with him or meet your parents or get married! He won’t give you enough time to even get to know him and will keep your mind so occupied with his sweet-talk that you don’t even realize how fast you two are moving. True love takes time. You don’t need to rush with it. His behavior clearly shows that he is very shallow and won’t take time to leave you just as fast as he came in your life!