10 Signs You Are A People Pleaser
You have a nice heart, and you try to be polite with everyone. You are soft spoken and all in all, someone everyone likes. Chances are that unconsciously you have turned into a people pleaser and hence, you do not give yourself the attention you deserve. Enlisted here are some clear signs that you are a people pleaser.
1. You are always busy
You are busy doing your own work, and then some work of your colleagues, some things for your kids, and then for your boyfriend. And then some more for your neighbor. And for your friend who is about to get married. Someone asks for something and you say yes, always!
2. You crib like all the time
That too in front of different people about different things. You crib about how A is making you do so much in front of B, about how B thinks of you as a robot in front of C. And you would just whine and mutter things and still find yourself doing things.
3. You cannot stand it if someone does not like you
You make it your life’s mission to make that one son of a gun that does not like you to like you to the extent that he starts calling you his bestie!
4. You often let your work hang
The moment someone makes that puppy dog face, you leave whatever it is that you are doing and work on their thing. Many times, you find out that you have used up your energy reserves and now your work is stuck in the middle.
5. You experience mood swings
Because you are such a people pleaser, and their mood controls yours, your mood inadvertently keeps fluctuating at the speed of light.
