10 Reasons Why Saying I Love You Too Soon Is a Bad idea
He might have swept you off the feet and you might be heads over heels in love with him; but wait before you blurt out those three words. Here are a few reasons why saying ‘I love you’ too soon may not be such a great idea.
1. You may sound clingy
Some women get out of a relationship straight into the next one because they can’t stand the thought of being alone. Men avoid this kind of women like cancer, and saying ‘I love you’ too soon will just make you look like one of those obsessive types.
2. He may run for the door
Make sure the other person thinks and feels the same before saying those three words. Otherwise, you are definitely gonna scare them off and as you know once a man takes to his heels, it is impossible to have him back.
3. What about chivalry?
No matter how much feminism has caught up with us, we still prefer waiting for the man to say ‘I love you.’ Serenading and proposing is still very much a male domain and you should just sit back and enjoy.
4. What about unrequited love?
Are you ready to take no for an answer? What if he doesn’t feel the same about you? Ask yourself these questions before declaring your undying love for him.
5. Slow and steady wins the race
Take time to know the person. Go out with him and see how much you two have in common. Otherwise, you could be dating a psychopath or a loser for all you know.
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